How to get rid of Dark circles and tips to get beautiful skin for Bangalore call girls

 Skin is a vital part of our body and is very important for Bangalore call girls to have beautiful skin. Therefore it is our sole duty to keep it fit and glowing. But sometimes due to harsh lifestyles of Bangalore call girls and some bad habits our skin gets damaged. You just need to follow few steps to get better glowing skin that you have always desired to have.

Bangalore call girls will find the problem of dark circles. But they don’t know the reasons behind its cause. In order to get rid of such problem it’s important to understand the reason why they appear. Therefore here follows some of the reasons:

  • It may appear around your eyes due to tiredness.
  • Sometimes it can happen due to lack of sleep.
  • It may also happen due to the formation of increased number of melanin that causes allergy.
  • Due to the breaking of blood vessels these dark circles can even appear under your eyes.
  • Too much of caffeine intake and smoking can also be cause of it.
  • Due to aging one may have it.

What causes puffy eyes?

Along with dark circles puffy eyes are a great problem too for the Bangalore call girls. There reasons behind the cause of this problem are as follows:

  • Over consumption of salt in food is a vital cause of such eyes.
  • People having sinus problems also face under eye-bag problem.
  • Tiredness and lack of good sleep may be another cause of this problem.
  • Too much of crying can make your swell.
  • Sometimes allergies cause under-eye swelling and keeps on persisting.

How can you get rid of such problems?

Here follows some tips:

  • Get yourself enough rest and sleep.
  • Drink ample amount of water and fruit juices that will keep you hydrated.
  • Reduction of salt in your food.
  • Use some cream to sooth your eyes during night.
  • Wash your face or rather your eyes with cold water as much as possible.

Tips for a beautiful skin for Bangalore call girls


  • If you use scrubs that are harsh for your skin then now is the best time to change it. It is better to use natural scrubs to exfoliate your skin and make it glow.
  • It’s better for you not to take showers for longer period. Hot water takes away the moisture from your skin faster than cold water.
  • Know the type of skin you have before using any product. Wrong skin product can damage your skin.
  • Do you use soap to wash your face? Then stop it. Soaps are harsher for facial skin.
  • Another reason of skin damage is too much intake of caffeine and smoking. Stop these two things and Bangalore call girls will regain your bright glowing skin again.


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Time We Re-Examined Some Of The Teachings About So-Called Sacred Sexuality

Our present obsession with “holy” bonking (sorry! Sacred Sex) has become yet another obsession that borders the absurd. In our frantic effort to justify why we should have more sex (with some emotion) in our lives we’ve managed yet again to climb to another level of hypocrisy.

As if it is not enough that many people secretly enjoy the sexual urges within themselves, try kinky stuff, use porn to get off, drink aphrodisiacs and have a little some-some hidden away in a drawer somewhere but will not openly admit that they enjoy sex, now here comes “holy” erotics…

With the new wave of consciousness and spiritual enlightenment came the “evil” twin. Many of us are having a lot of trouble telling one from the other. I especially want to caution my fellow women to be very weary of the SOBs disguised as Sacred Sex Instructors or Sexual Healers. I am not saying all of the instructors and healers out there are fakes, but check the person out thoroughly before you ever think of allowing anyone to take advantage of your vulnerability. I’ve worked with women who’ve been enticed into all sorts of sexual exploits in the name of sexual healing, sacred sex or spiritual elevation only to end up with sexually transmitted diseases and broken hearts. This is no joke.

One of my clients told me about a holistic healer whom since I was black and into holistic work, she figured out I might know him. She told me, the brother says he can help women with infertility, sexual problems and childhood sexual abuse issues etc. I trained in trauma counselling specializing in childhood sexual abuse and related adult issues, I had to see this holistic healer for myself, may be learn a few things from him.

I found the place to be a small downtown hideout with two rooms. In one, the brother sees clients and from the consultation room you can see through the open door into the other room which basically has a tiny bed all decked out in very expensive “African” themed decor; leopard , zebra, giraffe etc – stunning!. The “sexual healer” himself is damn good looking; a dark tall lean angular figure, gorgeous dreadlocks, alert piercing mystical eyes and set of perfect milk-white teeth against a coal black gum which makes his smile so mesmerizing. No wonder he has a stream of female clients – all races. As soon as I settled down on the mat in front of him, the brother started telling me all about my “sexual difficulties”. Now that is a real joke, because anyone who knows me also knows that with me, sex and difficult – they can’t belong in the same sentence. I told the brother, “no problem there”. So he started something about my childhood sexual abuse and stuff. I told him I had never been abused as I child but he insisted I just don’t remember it and that it was hidden somewhere in my brain. I told him where I come from child abuse is a curse, a taboo punishable by death of the person, his family and whole clan -I would have heard about it if something like that had happened on my account. He told me it was in my past life – another place and time – and that this was my fifth time round on earth.

Now, I do not dispute this past lives’ theory, at least I am honest enough to say I don’t know anything about it but I do not necessarily care for it either – there is just too much good stuff going on in this PRESENT life that I have no real need or desire to dig up buried bones, if there are any. I think the real reason I was willing to listen for over 15 minutes was because of what the brother was doing to me in the NOW.

See, the “diagnosis process” involves touching in the places that can get a woman’s heart pumping chaotically – at least a red blooded woman. After about 10 minutes of his magic touch, and may be because I had closed my eyes and started day dreaming – about my boyfriend, he thought he had me because he invited me to the little bed to get my “treatment”. You could have heard a pin drop in the brief seconds before I went “native”, “rural” or “emotional” whatever you want to call it. All the so called “civilized” came off like a cheap polyester coat. I let the brother have it the way we do it in the village, except of course lifting my dress up and cursing him with my nakedness. I called him any name that I could think of and repeatedly told the brother to go to “hell” which is where he belongs! I am sure that brother had never seen anything like that because he was cowering in the corner when I left. I was still cursing when I got onto the street car. Sss-sexual healing my hide!

And there are some others who are running huge sex-trade operations in the name of holistic centers. Some of these are run by men in skin tight biker shorts pretending to be “gay” only to end up feeling you up with their sleazy moist hands, their frontal limp mere three inch sock giving them away. The lows to which some people can stoop for free sex!

The saying that what we know in our mind is defined by our experiences makes lots of sense. I’ve even heard Dr. Phil say, “it’s all in the mind” when referring to sex and wondered what kind of sex he is talking about. Isn’t there supposed to be a difference between actually having sex and having a fantasy about sex? And what is the spirit doing when you are having sex in your mind moreover using the body? Probably perched somewhere above on the ceiling, cheering or perhaps judging, condemning or shaming. And immediately after intercourse the spirit jumps right back into the body, mind or wherever it usually resides. If you’ve had sex – I mean with the kind of abandonment you feel in every fiber of your being – you know too well it’s a lot more than a mind or body thing. Sex is an experience of the soul. And there are times when the spirit takes over, and you know – that you know – something truly divine is upon the two of you.

Patriarchal religions and traditional western culture have associated the mind with ‘thinking’ and relegated sex to a function of the ‘physical’, the practices of ancient traditions imply a different understanding. Among native cultures and indigenous peoples, sex by its very nature – consensual or rape – can not be “merely physical” or “all mental” because sexual intercourse releases tremendous energy (positive or negative) inside the human soul. That is why sex in biblical times and among many African cultures is still known as “knowledge’ of the other person. And that is why sometimes rape victims or child abuse survivors have a hard time looking into the eyes of their attackers and abusers. Whether consciously or unconsciously, sex involves the exchange of “knowledge” at a soul level.

In the native worldview sex resonates with the very foundational energies of the universe and where the spiritual and the physical are all part of a whole, and all of creation is inherently sacred because it is part of the interconnected web of the Whole that sustains life. No BODY and no THING have to be proven worthy to be considered sacred. And just because we abuse, misuse and disuse sex doesn’t make it any less or any more sacred – SEX IS ALREADY SACRED! But of course those of us stuck in our “scientific and logical” thinking way of complicating and dividing things up into meaningless little pieces will have a hard time grasping the simplicity of life’s mysteries.

What I am saying is that, even if well intentioned, our latest obsession with the “sacredness” of sex does not easily heal the split of mind and body nor does it make sex more spiritual (or sacred). Besides, over “spiritualizing” sex at a logical and intellectual level can anaesthetize the sexual experience by obstructing the natural inner flow which knows the best way intuitively. For crying aloud’s sake, one does not have to be in an expanded stated of mind to passionately kiss one’s wife or husband or massage a lover’s feet. Of course if you are in that state that would be absolutely wonderful.

If we gave sex its rightful place in all aspects of our daily lives, we might make our society more vibrant and nurturing instead of being a fertile ground for profound inhibitions and all sorts of collective obsessions. Only and only when we are able to be honest with ourselves and with others about our sexual nature and sexual desires can we ignite that sexual fire that burns deep within us and flows through every level of our human life.

It will take a level of awareness that Western society hasn’t had, en masse, in past decades for us to make peace with sex and our sexual nature. Making peace with our sexed being and sexual desires is not the same as doing whatever we feel like. We do need to form consensual agreements, respectful communication and honor rituals that channel sexuality into positive forms if we are to start healing our unhealthy sexuality and end sexual abuse of children in our society. But with that, we must allow ourselves to dream, to fantasize, to experiment, to create our own sexual animal. For many of us it means breaking free from our neurotic fear of the erotic and transcending beyond the deeply embedded negative beliefs and counterproductive attitudes. It even means re-examining some of the teachings about so -called sacred sexuality.

So back to you – what sensations drift into your consciousness as you read this??What vague feelings of dissatisfaction, disillusionment, self-consciousness or even shame about your sexual nature and sexual desires make you cringe? Is there a revelation here for you? May be it is time to define clearly what you want to do and say, to bring into being what really defines you as sexual being. May be its time you talked to me. No kidding.

Christine Akiteng is an internationally renowned Sexual Confidence/Dating Coach and author of e-Books: The Art Of Seducing Out Of Fullness, Breaking A Bad Relationships Pattern, and Playing Hard-To-Get The Love Way.

Sexual Healing – Coping With Your Wife’s Low Sex Drive

Solutions to sexual issues begin with approach of the problem. Sympathize with her rather than attack her. As much as it’s bothering you and frustrating you, it’s bothering her too. Your wife loves you in heart, mind and body and she doesn’t want to be this icy, sexless ghost. She wants to be the best woman for you in all ways and falling short romantically is not only causing her emotional pain. It’s also worrying her. Begin by talking to her and listening. Give her reassurance that you’re not resenting her or looking elsewhere. Let her know that you sympathize and are aware it’s not easy for her. Assure her you’re in it with her and that you’re not leaving her, especially to get sex elsewhere.

Now that you’ve established sympathy and approach, be prepared to help. Low sex drives can have multiple causes and multiple solutions. Step up and research, call therapists and buy items to aid in the mood. Send out the signal that you’re an uncaring lump and you’ll be working against the pursuit of physical intimacy and sex. As your wife sees you trying to help her because of love and not out of desperation, it can show her she’s not alone. Communicate about sex and its role in your relationship. Converse with her about your sexual needs, her needs and what is going on in the marriage. Although we may wish they would, low sex drives rarely ever go away on their own and never by being ignored.

Not talking openly and honestly about sex gives room for ignorance, fear and negativity to creep up in your relationship. Communicating with your wife will tell her that you’re in this and you’re truly her partner. Don’t be afraid to ask questions about possible causes, both physical and emotional. Your wife may have past experiences or physical feelings tha are damaging her sex drive. Exploring into who she is can aid in unlocking any issues. If there are health issues, libido can surely drop. Remember you are not there to fix her but you are there to talk with her and help her. Seek out a therapist. Your wife can be heavily influenced by emotions. Sexuality can be deeply rooted in how she feels. Find a a counselor your wife feels comfortable with. You can help her talk out issues but you’re not qualified to dig deep into who she is. Additionally, if she has no regular physician, have her find one. She may then begin to speak about possible physical causes.

Sexual Healing the Right Way – How to Use Tantric Touch For Healing, Intimacy, and Bliss

Not quite the realm of Marvin Gaye, but Tantra does have an important place in sexual healing.

The words tantra, tantric practices, conjure up images of lovers entwined in mind bending positions, endless lovemaking and excessive debauchery.

Oh no!

In reality ‘tantra’ is simply a spiritual practice through which our natural sexual energy stored in our bodies and the spirit is awakened and channelled through the body for union with lover and the cosmos or divine. Tantric practices such as tantric massage, sex and visualisations, and breathing all encourage this energy to build, power up and circulate around the body.

Most of us carry some kind of baggage, pain, memories from life experiences or relationships which have affected us in some way. These issues will be carried around throughout our lives and in our relationships unless expressed and released. By clearing these obstacles you open yourself to experience more energy and happiness, more connection with lover and a deeper connection with the world and universe.

However what people don’t often realise is that tantra and tantric touch can be a powerful tool for healing and intimacy with yourself and between your self and lover. A healing touch or massage session doesn’t necessarily require a partner. You can pleasure, connect and get intimacy and healing with yourself.

A few points to keep in mind:

When practicing tantric healing touch or Tantric Massage, your sensual environment is very important. Create a comfortable and sensual environment to help relax and awaken your senses dulled by stress and unhappiness. If you in a relationship, set aside 5-10 minutes at the beginning of the Tantric Touching to connect with your lover. Gaze into their eyes visualising a connection between your heart and theirs, i.e. pink heart energy between yourselves in a circuit. Decide on your time frame, and who will be the giver and receiver of the tantric touch or massage. Treat your lover like the divine – focus on him and her, their pleasure, bearing in mind that there is no goal or rush.

Use slow and deliberate touch, channelled energy around the body, Visualize healing energy from your hands soothing body and spirit. Allow any emotions to arise and release. Rest with lover afterwards.

If you are on your own – the same principles apply. Imagine heart energy circulating around your body, dissolving any pain or discomfort, and any negative feelings you may have about yourself or parts of your body. Imagine your body glowing and pulsating with this wonderful heart energy.

Now is the time to allow sexual healing into your life and relationship, and experience whole body connection and bliss.

Pan and Aphrodite for Humanity’s Sexual Healing

Sexuality has been a rather dysfunctional area of the human experience, in the past and today also. Even though, in the western world, we may appear as ‘liberated’, ‘uninhibited’, ‘progressed’ and ‘advanced’ in sexual matters, with free pornography and prostitution, Internet sex, promiscuous sex with strangers, countless sex advice on popular magazines, huge expenses on improving our sex-appeal and appearance, sexuality is not much more balanced today than at other times. Neither is its connection to spirituality widely recognized. Sexual energies, when cleared of any excessively ‘positive’ (obsession) or ‘negative’ (judgment) attributes, can be used for the return and re-anchoring of higher frequencies in our lives and the world around us.

Hardly do we realize the importance of sexual health to spiritual health. We mostly regard sexuality as an isolated part, cut-off from the rest of our lives. Yet, sexuality is an inseparable part of one’s expression of life force. A couple with a healthy sex life, based on love, respect, inspiration and creativity, exudes such delightful energy, which helps, not only themselves, but also the world and the people around them in invisible ways. The same applies to a person who may be single, yet at peace, comfort and acceptance of his/her sexuality, while expressing his/her creative force in different ways. Despite the media’s brainwashing, sexual health (in the spiritual sense) is NOT determined by the frequency of our sexual contacts. Sexual health means acceptance, means the release of any guilt or shame about sexuality, the recognition of sexuality as a channel for powers of creativity, joy, spontaneity, honor and vitality. These qualities can be expressed in many different ways, not just through sex. Problems arise when these qualities get blocked due to trauma, guilt, shame, insecurity, low self-esteem, idolizing sex, sex addiction etc.

Human sexuality can be seen as a means to channel Universal energy into matter, so that physical matter is ultimately infused with life energy and soul energy. The most obvious creation of this infusion is, of course, a baby! But it is not the only one. Through appropriate channeling of sexual energy, one can create a work of art, a book, a project, or just a joyous day, during which we laugh and love and sing and rejoice. Sexual energy, when properly channeled (according to ancient methods of yoga, for example) can help towards spiritual enlightenment. Seeing sexuality as a package of physical techniques on biological reflexes, in order to create some momentary euphoria, is a very limited view. It is like seeing sex, as a little ‘fix’ to produce a ‘high’ and this view hides the spiritual truth of sexuality.

As other areas of the human experience, sexuality can be a wonderful tool, but it can be used in different ways. It can be used for ill and darkness, or it can be used for love and truth. Ways, not contributing to the light, are when sex is used for hurting, humiliating, using, or exploiting another, or for escaping boredom and the sense of vacuum and emptiness we may feel. Yet, the vacuum inside cannot be filled by sex. Many people today try to fill what is, essentially, a spiritual vacuum with sex and end up feeling more empty than ever (especially if they have used other people for their own perceived ‘need’). Both partners tend to feel cut off from the source of life force, depleted rather than energized, end up seeing each other and themselves as worthless and unattractive. We are bombarded by the media with messages of sexual obsession and sexual using (“how to get him/her to meet your needs” etc), but no one tells us that what we do to another, we do, first and foremost, to ourselves. If, through sex, we humiliate or use another, this is how we will feel about ourselves: used and humiliated. If, on the other hand, sex is the way of expression of love and appreciation of another, then this feeling will multiply for ourselves also. Sex can be the tool to give love or pain. The choice is ours and this choice will affect (just like every choice we make) every aspect of our life, as well as life around us.

Sexual healing is not about spicy advice on achieving greater physical pleasure. Sexual healing is about who we feel we are, in the deepest recesses of our soul. Sexual healing is about clearing the guilt that comes from abuse we received from others or we inflicted upon others, in this or in past lives. It is about de-idolizing sex and shedding all fears around it, fear of rejection, of not being liked, of being without, of being inadequate. It is about seeing its true purpose: union, joy, co-creation. Many spiritually evolved individuals choose the celibate life of the monk or nun, not because sex is ‘bad’, ‘dirty’ or anti-spiritual, but because they use their sexual energy for spiritual ascension. This may not be for everyone, if they feel that this is not their path. Spiritual progress does not exclude sexual activity, but the latter has to rely on love and respect to assist the former.

Sexual healing is very important today for the progress of humanity, since this area gathers some of the most repressed and dark negative thoughts and acts. Think about women in abusive relationships or women stoned for ‘hypothetical’ (or even real) infidelity. Think of the pain in many relationships (which is always linked to sexual pain, directly or indirectly), which often leads to substance abuse, depression, even suicide. Think of those, sometimes advertised, sexual practices, which humiliate human beings, with the use of physical violence. Many forms of negativity charge sexuality today, especially when it is disconnected from the spiritual self and is used to channel lower energies.

Some examples of distorted use of sexuality are the following:

1) The degrading of women, has been going on for so long, in such a wide scale, that the accumulated memory leads many women (along with men) to depreciate themselves. Men and women often fail to see the connection of female sexuality to the qualities of beauty, tenderness, sweetness and the Divine Feminine, but only see it as a vehicle for physical pleasure. Many women, who dimly remember this connection with the Divine Feminine, try to reclaim it, but sometimes do not know how. They expect approval from a man, in order to feel this connection again and to feel good about themselves. They idolize outer appearance, as the measure of the erotic inspiration they emit. But, attractiveness stems from the flame of vivacity, of our spiritual essence, which is unique, exists in all of us and which, when embraced, can shine outwards to all. This is the real attractiveness and beauty. A woman feels good in herself for who she is and this ease makes others feel attracted, while feeling good also. Everyone wins. Even without sex, the recognition of one’s own light and of the light of another, can be the most sublime, etheric erotic interchange, which can even diminish the biological need for sex. Sex can come about, but it only unfolds as another step in the manifestation of a positive energetic connection, it does not create, or replace the connection.

Many women can be blocked sexually by the emotional wounds of the past. Betrayals, rejection, lack of affection, abuse from the past, may make them doubt themselves and obstruct the flow of life force, in all areas of their lives. In this case, it is helpful to visualise clearing the heart charka with the white light of the Goddess. Even if a woman did not have any negative emotional experiences, it is likely that she feels the universal wound of rejection and abuse of women, coming from the collective unconscious of millions of women who have been abused and still are, in the world today. Healing the heart charka in this way, she helps not only herself, but heals the global thought-form (“women are abused by men”), she sends the healing energetic matrix to be used elsewhere by other consciousnesses too. Since we are all connected, healing does not only heal us, but goes beyond us.

Women can also ask Goddess Aphrodite to help them heal and accept their sexuality, to help life force flow again as a creative and vital power in their lives. The Aphrodite energy is very helpful in healing female sexuality and the Divine Feminine for humanity. A woman can thus feel the strength, the joy and vivacity which the Aphrodite energy brings… Even though Aphrodite’s name has been long stained and mis-used for all sorts of prostitution or pornography related material, Her purity cannot be changed, neither could She ever die…

There is another issue which links female sexuality to the channeling and the energy of the Goddess on Earth. The Goddess was worshipped very actively in many ancient temples in many parts of the world, mainly through female priestesses, who were virgins or practiced chastity. This was very powerful, since there were a big number of priestesses indeed! In those times, celibacy did not have the meaning that it has had in many religions since, i.e. it was not about being ‘clean’, while condemning sex as ‘dirty’. It was about reserving the female sexual energy for channeling the Goddess, and it was a very powerful anchoring method for the Goddess’s energy. Until a time came when, even in spirituality, masculinity dominated (sometimes through violence by male priests). These male priests or other males may have been of the dark or not, but (in ancient Greece at least, but I presume in other parts of the world too), they destroyed the temples of the Goddess and, on some occasions, converted the temples for male deities. They also forbade the priestesses from practicing the worship, forced them to marry, sometimes raped them or trained them and corrupted them with sex, so that the temples of the Goddesses became more or less prostitution houses. Prostitution was NOT one of the methods of the Goddess! But it was a powerful way for male domination to divert female sexual energy from anchoring the Goddess on Earth. It was not so much that they corrupted or raped the priestesses for their own personal gratification (even though this was a side gain!), but their main aim was to close down the channel for the Goddess through the priestesses.

How does this relate to us today? The Goddess is coming back… And it happens that many women around the world, especially sensitive, educated, strong women, find themselves, for long periods of time, without a partner. Is this a coincidence? I do not think so. Rather than complaining, or longing for partner, or even worse, consume themselves with inappropriate relationships, it is important for these women to recognize that any period of celibacy has its purpose. To question themselves, as to whether they feel drawn to working with the Goddess, since the Goddess energy may be trying to get through to them. It does not have to be forever, nor do women have to become nuns. The Goddess may need to work with them in chastity for only a certain period of time. When this time is over, the right partner will appear without effort. Neither does it mean that married or sexually active women cannot be the Goddess’s channels (though ANY relationship or sex that is not mutually loving, kind and respectful would block the Goddess energy). In effect, the large number of women without a partner today reflects a spiritual calling from the Goddess, one to be grateful for and used well, rather than wasted in obsessing about finding a partner (in ways that some modern movies or books almost make fun of…) This is something new in our spiritual era and something to be honored. So, I feel it is quite important that single women are aware of this perspective, since for many of them, their cooperation is needed by the Goddess AND working with Her will make their lives much more fulfilling and sweet than they can ever imagine. It happened on so many occasions in ancient Greece and ancient Egypt, during the attack on the Goddess, that the priestesses were made to believe that they were good only for sex or that they could not make it without a man…The reversal, the healing of this distortion is taking place now…

On the other hand, many men can also feel blocked (even apathetic) towards sex, or they can be obsessed and addicted to sex. For men, the deity Pan can help in clearing the channel of sexual flow, in reconnecting with the current of life force through sexuality, regardless of the presence of a partner. Pan is the guardian of the life force energy source (which in the inner planes looks like a little like a waterfall), for the human and animal kingdom and I believe for Nature also. Since it is the same life force, the energetic interaction which occurs when we are in nature, breathing it and appreciating it, helps us open up the sexual channel and helps with sexual healing too. It is of no coincidence that in Greek mythology, humans were said to join erotically with nymphs, ethereal and elemental energies. The channels of life flow in humans were so clear and open, their frequency so high, that they could unite with the entities of Nature, showing that Man and Nature are one. It was not of course any form of the biological sex that we know of today, but it was an energetic union and interaction of the highest and purest level and beauty, which created more Light on Earth. Unfortunately, as the general energies spiraled down with the passage of time, this capacity was lost, and the once pure ceremonies of Nature in ancient Greece (and elsewhere) got replaced by drunken orgies.

Yet, as humanity and Nature evolve towards ascension, the two worlds with come close together once again. It is no coincidence that Pan, Who symbolizes the purest and highest triangle joining Nature, Man and the Divine, was brutally slandered, for many centuries, making Him appear as a satyr, a nymphomaniac, ugly, with horns etc. At times, His image was even taken to represent evil. None of this is true. Pan is one of the highest Masters of Light, the king of the Nature and of the Elemental Kingdom and He protects Nature and Man.He does NOT have horns, He has a very beautiful innocent loving face and lots of thick curly long hair. When He was in body on Earth, He could sometimes appear with goat’s legs (although He could also appear as fully human), but this was deliberately planned by Spirit, as a dramatic lesson of utmost importance to humanity about the equality of Man and Nature. A lesson, we are still struggling with today…

2) Sexual abuse, particularly of children, is one of the darkest distortions of human sexuality. What could lead someone to such behavior? There is never just one single reason, but it has been found that the many offenders in child sexual abuse have themselves been abused as children. What is very common in cases of child sexual abuse is memory repression, so that the adult bears no conscious awareness of what happened to him, even though he may have irksome feelings that something inside is deeply wrong. Unless they heal their original trauma, so that they reclaim their own wounded inner child, there is some likelihood for a few of them (though certainly not the majority of adult survivors) to repeat the trauma they endured and behave in a similar way to other innocent and vulnerable ones. In some cases, there may even be the element of revenge, power and control, humiliation, malevolent intent to destroy the innocence of the child victim, especially when the offender is also influenced by lower energies and entities. The more the offender passes his own shame and worthlessness onto the victim, the more ashamed and worthless he feels himself. Both lose, in an ever-deepening vicious circle of abuse and humiliation (which is always the sole responsibility of the offender). After each re-enactment, the offender feels more and more depraved, helpless, and worthless, so that he feels his only choice really is to do one more of the same.

If an offender wishes to heal (some do), it is very important first to be cleared of any negative energies or entities that may have been attached to him, either by those who abused him as a child (if this is the case), or during his own acts of offending. I believe that addictions, such as offending children sexually, practicing violent sex, or using heroin (among others), attract many negative entities to those involved, this is why it is so hard for many individuals to break away from them. This does not mean that the offender bears no responsibility, or in fact karma, for it is always he, who chooses what to do. But it is an important factor to consider and I believe that many therapy programs today for offenders and addicts, would be much more successful, if they included negative energy clearing. It is important for the offender to ask clearing and protection from the Beings of Light, like Archangel Michael, in order to keep away any dark energies, who may be trying to manipulate him. The offender can ask to be helped to act, think and feel only in pure and kind intent. He/She can ask from Pan to withdraw his/her energy from any destructive channels of expression and re-channel them to healthy ways of light and creativity. It is important to ask for help from the Highest Beings of Light, since the darkness involved in these cases can be quite persistent. I believe that 12 step programs for addicts are excellent in this regard (and child sexual offending is always an addiction), since their basis is fundamentally spiritual: the addict/offender needs to admit the destructive nature of his behaviour, to take responsibility for his actions and thoughts, to realize that, with help, he can change, to admit that he needs help in therapy and to take all necessary practical steps to commit to his therapy. All of this, of course, requires that he is wishful and ready to change. Many are not. But there are some, who can no longer bear the pain of the depravity their acts bring and wish to change.

What we, lightworkers can do, if we feel this is the right thing, is to pray, wherever it is permitted by God and does not interfere with karma and with God’s Plan, for child sexual abuse to come to an end and for child offenders and victims to heal, if and when they are ready. If we ask without judgement and with genuine caring for all involved, we are helping, not just the offender, but the many possible child victims that each offender could harm during the course of his life, if left untreated. Of course, we can pray for the protection and caring of all children involved.

As for the victimized child, he/she does not need to remain a helpless victim forever. He/she can heal and clear away the stain of shame that has been put on their soul by the offender. The sexual offence on children almost always aims to destroy the innocence in the child. But innocence cannot be destroyed. Children may think that they lost their innocence, but in reality, it has only been ‘frozen’ at a certain corner of their heart, only waiting to be warmed and reclaimed again. The survivor, when ready to heal, can get rid off the feeling of shame and wrongness, which was not theirs in the first place, can reclaim their power and self-love and feel safe with their power. Praying to the Mother Mary (or any feminine deity of white clearing pure light) to clear with the white light of innocence all remnants of memories of shame and pain can be very helpful, as well as praying to Pan and Aphrodite for sexual healing.

3) AIDS. It is of no coincidence that, at a time when sex is so often burdened with shame and darkness, to appear a disease, which is transmitted through sex, but which also is related with acute stigma, shame and in some environments, even repulsion. There are many negative psychological interactions around AIDS. There are places in the world, where virgins are raped, because the rapist believes that he will get rid of the ‘dirty’ virus by passing it on to a ‘pure’ other (the same dynamic with child sexual abuse: the offender abuses the child in a failed attempt to find a momentary relief from the burden of the ‘dirty’ shame, by passing it on to the innocent victim). HIV carriers are stigmatized (perhaps not so much in the developed world, but in many other parts of the world), as if there is something wrong with them. The virus has become a symbol of all the negativity we have projected upon sex, and has, in turn, been used as a tool to spread the shame and the negativity further, by stigmatizing and condemning people. We can visualize a white light clearing humanity and all those who wish to receive this, of all the shame, guilt, stigma, judgment, revenge, abuse, isolation, that relate to AIDS and HIV. We can send the white light of love and compassion and acceptance to all those who have died so far (20 million in Sub-Saharan Africa alone, often died in secrecy and isolation), as well as those who are affected now. The more people refuse to judge and turn away from those infected, but see them in light, love and equality, the more the virus (which represents shame, rejection and ‘dirtiness’ about sex) will lose its power. The white light of innocence, embracing the Earth, will help loosen the grip of the disease upon humanity.